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There were people at Temple who had my back\u2014answering my million questions (even the dumb ones), grabbing coffee with me between classes when I looked lost, and just being someone familiar when everything else felt strange. Now I&#8217;m on the other side as a peer mentor in International Student Affairs&#8217; <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/global.temple.edu\/international-student-affairs\/signature-programs\/peer2peer\" data-type=\"link\" data-id=\"https:\/\/global.temple.edu\/international-student-affairs\/signature-programs\/peer2peer\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Peer2Peer program<\/a><\/strong>, and it feels awesome to be that person for someone else.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>More Than Just a Mentor<\/strong>&nbsp;<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Being a peer mentor isn&#8217;t about checking boxes or adding something to my resume\u2014it&#8217;s about actually showing up and making real connections. I want to make sure nobody feels like they&#8217;re dealing with everything alone like I sometimes did.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Some of my favorite moments have been watching my mentees grow in confidence, even simple stuff like seeing them make their first real friends here.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I love hearing their stories from home, laughing about weird American customs they don&#8217;t get (&#8220;Why do you guys put ice in EVERYTHING?&#8221;), and being the person they text at 11 PM asking where to get the best late-night food near campus (Insomnia Cookies or The Dining Hall, depending on what you&#8217;re craving!).\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Why It Matters<\/strong>&nbsp;<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>I still remember exactly how it felt being on the other side\u2014constantly wondering if I was doing things right, if I was the only one struggling to adjust, if I&#8217;d ever feel like I belonged here. That&#8217;s why being a mentor matters so much to me now. Sometimes all you need is someone who gets it, who&#8217;s been through it, who can say &#8220;yeah, that part is weird, but trust me, it gets better.&#8221;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One of my mentees was seriously considering transferring schools after his first month because he felt so isolated. We started hanging out more, I introduced him to some clubs, and now he&#8217;s more involved on campus than I am! That&#8217;s the stuff that makes all the time and effort worth it.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"693\" height=\"935\" src=\"https:\/\/sites.temple.edu\/owltopia\/files\/2025\/10\/volleyball-fixed-edited.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-4749\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sites.temple.edu\/owltopia\/files\/2025\/10\/volleyball-fixed-edited.png 693w, https:\/\/sites.temple.edu\/owltopia\/files\/2025\/10\/volleyball-fixed-edited-222x300.png 222w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 693px) 100vw, 693px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Moulishka and her mentees at a volleyball game!<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Growing Together<\/strong>&nbsp;<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>The crazy thing about mentoring\u2014I&#8217;m learning just as much as my mentees are. Every mentee teaches me something new, whether it&#8217;s patience, a different way of looking at a problem, or literal new skills. &nbsp;<br>&nbsp;<br>Sometimes my mentees come up with solutions I&#8217;d never think of. When one was struggling with homesickness, instead of my usual advice, she suggested starting a weekly cooking night where everyone makes dishes from home. It turned into this amazing tradition that brought together students from 10 different countries!&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And honestly, the absolute best part is watching former mentees become mentors themselves. Three of mine are signing up for the program next semester! That&#8217;s how we build something that lasts\u2014by paying it forward, one person at a time.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I wouldn&#8217;t trade this experience for anything. Not even for free tuition. Okay, maybe for free tuition, but it would be a tough choice!\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"has-text-align-right\"><em>By Moulishka Sawant, CST \u201827, Peer2Peer Mentor<br>Photos provided by Moulishka Sawant<\/em> <br><em>Header photo at an International Coffee Hour<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When I first got to Temple, everything felt huge\u2014new faces everywhere, buildings I couldn&#8217;t navigate, and a whole different way of living. It was super&#8230;<\/p>\n<div class=\"more-link-wrapper\"><a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/sites.temple.edu\/owltopia\/2025\/10\/29\/from-mentee-to-mentor-paying-it-forward\/\">Continue Reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">From Mentee to Mentor: Paying It Forward<\/span><\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"author":30058,"featured_media":4718,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_coblocks_attr":"","_coblocks_dimensions":"","_coblocks_responsive_height":"","_coblocks_accordion_ie_support":"","_themeisle_gutenberg_block_has_review":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[76,54,222],"class_list":["post-4346","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-features","tag-global-engagement","tag-international-students","tag-mentee-to-mentor","ratio-16-9","entry"],"featured_image_src":"https:\/\/sites.temple.edu\/owltopia\/files\/2025\/10\/mentee-to-mentor--600x400.jpg","featured_image_src_square":"https:\/\/sites.temple.edu\/owltopia\/files\/2025\/10\/mentee-to-mentor--600x600.jpg","author_info":{"display_name":"Stephen Hesson","author_link":"https:\/\/sites.temple.edu\/owltopia\/author\/tup74744\/"},"post_mailing_queue_ids":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sites.temple.edu\/owltopia\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4346","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sites.temple.edu\/owltopia\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sites.temple.edu\/owltopia\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sites.temple.edu\/owltopia\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/30058"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sites.temple.edu\/owltopia\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4346"}],"version-history":[{"count":19,"href":"https:\/\/sites.temple.edu\/owltopia\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4346\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4804,"href":"https:\/\/sites.temple.edu\/owltopia\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4346\/revisions\/4804"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sites.temple.edu\/owltopia\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4718"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sites.temple.edu\/owltopia\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4346"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sites.temple.edu\/owltopia\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4346"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sites.temple.edu\/owltopia\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4346"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}