On our last full day in Dublin, I decided to treat myself to lunch and take in the sights of the city one last time. I started my journey with Professor Ryan at the National Museum of Ireland, Collins Barracks. We spent some time checking out the exhibits together, and then we went our separate ways. I navigated myself to a different area of Dublin to grab lunch and visited Dublin Castle. My “Dublin on Your Own” adventure was cut short when I stalked Mia’s location and met up with her, so she could take photos of me for Instagram.

In those few hours alone, I learned a lot about myself. I learned I can navigate difficult situations, persevere in uncomfortable situations, and determine when I need to reconnect with others.

It was difficult trying to figure out the public transportation system in Dublin, especially on my own. I asked locals for directions and consulted Google Maps. Even when I took wrong turn after wrong turn, I made it to my desired location.

It was also difficult to enter a restaurant by myself. There is a bit of discomfort asking for a table for one and sitting by yourself. It also did not help that it took me about four tries to find a restaurant with open tables. When I entered Fade St. Social, I asked an employee if I could get a table for one, and she gave me a variety of options. I chose to sit at a table on the rooftop, and there were several other single diners there. My waiter was just as kind to me as the larger parties. I really had nothing to worry about!

Finally, after some time alone, I knew I needed to reconnect with a friend. I was lucky that Mia was only a two-minute walk away from where I was. While I enjoyed my time alone, I had much more fun walking around with Mia and eventually returning to the hostel to get ready for dinner.

I enjoy spending time alone to gather my thoughts and reflect. I am glad I did this at the end of our trip because I could think about the week we spent in Dublin while it was fresh in my mind. I journaled as I waited for my lunch and had my “main character” moment. While it is not the same as Dublin, I will bring these reflective practices back to Philly with me.

Now, for the best part, check out my “Dublin on Your Own” vlog here!